How Laziness Can Ruin a Relationship: The Importance of Small Gestures

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When Laziness Costs a Relationship Relationships are built on love, trust, and mutual effort. Both partners are expected to contribute in ways that make the other feel valued, understood, and cared for. But what happens when one person becomes lazy in the relationship? Not disloyal, not unfaithful, but just too lazy to make an effort? It can feel like the worst thing for a couple, especially when both want to be together, stay loyal, and be happy. However, one partner may suddenly realize that the other is not unhappy or dissatisfied, but simply not willing to put in the effort. What Does Being Lazy in a Relationship Look Like? It starts small. You begin to notice that your partner isn’t calling you randomly anymore or that they’re not saying “I love you” as often. No more surprise flowers, no sweet notes reminding you why they love you. You’re not asking for much—just small gestures that make you feel loved and important. But suddenly, you’re made to feel like you’re asking for too mu...
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Subconsciously Active

Yeah its hard to be active by mind in that way....
I don't want to be active for several things, want to ignore many issues around me... try hard to avoid nearby toxicity...
But I can't ... my mind keeps running behind these issues,keep torturing me emotionally to resolve, to find the solution, to know more about the people, why they behave in a certain manner....
Why they are not making peace with the things....???

Sometime I want to scream ... and the next moment I just want to rolled on my blanket just shutting the world outside..

I know the problem with me...with my brain.... it listens every thought, notice every gesture and every action, even the blink of eye while I am telling the things can turn me off for further conversation...

Consciously I know the trick that can do wonder to my soul ....
just need to shut my mouth and ears....and keep working on myself...!!!

Need to achieve...  :)



- Pooja Dobhal



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