How Laziness Can Ruin a Relationship: The Importance of Small Gestures

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When Laziness Costs a Relationship Relationships are built on love, trust, and mutual effort. Both partners are expected to contribute in ways that make the other feel valued, understood, and cared for. But what happens when one person becomes lazy in the relationship? Not disloyal, not unfaithful, but just too lazy to make an effort? It can feel like the worst thing for a couple, especially when both want to be together, stay loyal, and be happy. However, one partner may suddenly realize that the other is not unhappy or dissatisfied, but simply not willing to put in the effort. What Does Being Lazy in a Relationship Look Like? It starts small. You begin to notice that your partner isn’t calling you randomly anymore or that they’re not saying “I love you” as often. No more surprise flowers, no sweet notes reminding you why they love you. You’re not asking for much—just small gestures that make you feel loved and important. But suddenly, you’re made to feel like you’re asking for too mu...
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HOW SUSHANT SINGH RAJPUT'S SUICIDE TELLS MORE ABOUT US THAN HIMSELF ...!!!

It has been almost 6 days and I am still in that feeling...

Sushant Singh Rajput
I am numb since the time I heard the news of #Sushantsinghrajput's demise (still trying to believe the things). It's heart breaking. it's painful.! It's not about the life or death of a person, it's happened all the time that's a part of life, but it's more about how we are living ???

I don't know whether it's true that he was in depression or not !

If not so, there may be some more solid reasons why this happened and this will be the other dark phase of life.

But if yes, so I am concerned about the cause which makes the people so vulnerable that they are not able to find a way to come out

What makes them (actually not them but us) so weak, that we can't talk to people ???

Why almost achieving everything, we are still not able to fight this demon called depression which resides inside of us?

And the answer is, human itself is a reason.... We are becoming vulnerable day by day just because of the insensitive people around us or the insensitivity inside

We become so insensitive that we cannot feel the pain, by which, the person is going
 through.or we are going through... We don't forgive ourselves, we are not aware about ourselves.

Why we are like this?

Why we insist our life to be more complex Instead of finding simple ways of living.

Why people can't be the person whom they always talk about. why we can't live with minimal ?
Be with your people, make them feel worthy.

Make your circle small, so that you can reach to your people, every time they want.

Don't run for the life that only leads to you in the position where you can't find peace.

Don't live, to impress,
Live simple,
Say, what you feel,
Find happiness in small things,
Love yourself.

Be sensitive... for the people who are not strong enough to deal with such things.
Be sensitive to yourself... you'll be more peaceful and happy..!!!

Please be sensitive. Be human.

May his soul Rest in Peace and
May God 📿 make our soul alive.

-Pooja Dobhal


PS - pic credit : Google

Comments

  1. Yatendra S.NegiJune 20, 2020 at 5:39 AM

    True... Your circle and and your surroundings matters a lot in nourishing your life but we keep on underestimating it ... Having a good people in your life is harbour in a tempest and having a bad people is tempest even in harbour.....so we must eliminate people having low energy ......and do away with the fact dat "life mai kuch bhi bura ya accha nahi hota hai ".........everything is NOT actually fair in love and war.

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    1. Pooja DobhalJuly 12, 2020 at 2:47 AM

      That's why I always try to surround myself with the people like you :)

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  2. Yatendra S.NegiJune 20, 2020 at 5:44 AM


    More power to u

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  3. pathak to pathaksJune 21, 2020 at 6:27 AM

    Yes you are right pooja

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  4. AfnanJuly 31, 2022 at 12:10 AM

    You are right

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